Growing Up

I always laughed at my wife, because she would have a hard time parting with clothes that no longer fit the kids. It was her way of holding onto the moment, stopping time and not allowing the kids to age another day. Of course her efforts were fruitless, but I always chuckled at the idea. Today was different. At the boys end of the year talent show, I finally realized that my kids are growing up. Not aging, but maturing. I listened as the staff sang "We Will Miss You" to the beat of We Will Rock You, realizing that Kade is moving on to a new school and Isaac will complete his time at Ada Elementary. No longer will their days start and end at the same location. And Kelly points out that they will be apart until high school.

Separation marks a new beginning, but also a loss for each. Sure they have their disagreements. Yet they always would look out for one another at school, catching a glimpse of the other out of the corner of their eye and finding comfort in that brief moment. Enemies at times, but brothers forever.

Kade moves onto Goodwillie and Isaac will become Isaac. Isaac's first step into his own personna occurred today at school when he played his drums. He put away his fears, put on his headphones and for a moment became the big brother. He was so excited and as parents we were ever so proud. It is hard to beleive, but my kids are growing. For me, this marks the first time I have wanted to hold on to the clothes that were too small. Yep, a touch of sadness as I realized my kids are growing. I should have understood my wife has known what she is doing all along.